INTRODUCTION TO INFIDELITY: Cheating Wife & Cheating Husband

ADULTERY / CHEATING / INFIDELITY can have a truly devastating impact on children, external family members, lives, spirituality and financially. Rather than live in fear of the possibility that your spouse is committing infidelity or remain paralyzed by a betrayal that has taken place, you can educate yourself on infidelity and empower yourself to prevent infidelity from happening. Infidelity Investigations can end your fear & anxiety, by discreetly providing you with the Truth!

The following is an overview of the different adultery terms, forms of infidelity, its causes, negative effects, and the visible signs of infidelity: However, the goal of this information is aide readers in preventing infidelity, identifying infidelity, and forgiving infidelity (regardless if a Divorce occurs or not).

Adultery Defined: Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the lawful spouse.
Cheating Defined: A deception for profit to yourself and or not faithful to a spouse or lover.
Infidelity Defined: Unfaithfulness to a sexual partner, especially a spouse and or lack of loyalty or religious belief.

Infidelity as explained by Debbie Then, Author of �Women Who Stay with Men Who Stray� . Regardless of their religious orientation, most people agree and understand that marriage vows implicitly and explicitly include a promise of �forsaking all others�. When this promise is broken, infidelity has occurred in a marriage.

Renowned psychologist and marital researcher Shirley Glass, author of several books on the subject of infidelity, estimates that �25% of wives and 44% of husbands have committed infidelity.� This, however, does not include emotional infidelity & affairs in which no sexual activity has taken place.

Statistics on the frequency of adultery or infidelity in the United States are hotly debated and difficult to gauge accurately. However, you can see by Internet search engine results for the word cheater, cheating, infidelity or adultery. There are plenty of companies advertising to the many Internet searchers who input those keywords. It is obvious from these numerous search results that infidelity and or cheating is becoming acceptable to the masses. Nonetheless, there are some of us who understand that it is wrong for more reasons than one.
Believe it or not? There are approx. 17 States in our country that still considers infidelity a punishable crime.

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According to Don-David Lusterman, Author of �Infidelity: A Survival Guide� , Infidelity can take on several different forms. Lusterman defines an affair as an extramarital involvement that takes place over time. Affairs can be emotionally intense but non-sexual relationship, purely sexual relations with no emotional bond, or can include both sexual and emotional relations.

Nonetheless, while adultery is generally defined as voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man or married woman with someone other than his or her spouse. Experts disagree on precisely what infidelity entails. However, a growing consensus (backed by Biblical Scriptures from both the Old & New Testament) that cheating is not limited to sexual unfaithfulness, but that it also occurs when a spouse forms a strong emotional attachment outside of marriage.

*Scripture Examples* 
Proverbs 6:25-26 (NIV) - Old Testament
�Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes, for the prostitute reduces you to a loaf of bread, and the adulteress preys upon your very life�.

Matthew 5:27-28 - New Testament
�You have heard that it was said, �You shall not commit adultery.� 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Identifying Infidelity: